How to get a girlfriend?
Why I find it difficult to get a girlfriend but other people find it easier? The reasons is because people achieved the same thing at different time. Some people find their girlfriend in their teens, others in their 20s, some people in their 30s while others in their 40s. So stop comparing yourself with others.
And I don't even think the sex ratio distribution is universal because even if statistics says that, the common sense tells otherwise. For example here in Northern Nigeria which is the epicenter of polygamy in the world, many people live in polygamous relationships but at the same time few men stay unmarried, if the sex ratio is accurate surely we'll have millions of leftover men that will never have partners, ironically there are many leftover girls and widows looking for husband in spite of the wide practice of the polygamy. Although the last census indicates men outnumbered women in the country. Polygamy is mostly practice by Muslims so if this census is accurate that's means Muslims in Nigeria gives birth to more daughters than their Christians counterpart in the country?
So know back to the original question, how to get a girlfriend? Unlike women whom are value for high reproductive success based on their youth, fertility and beauty, men on the other hand are value for reproductive success based on their social status, and accomplishments/material wealth; therefore to increase the chances of getting accepted by the girl you like ask a girl that will understand you. You can increase the chances of getting accepted by looking for a girlfriend in your social class by going to the places where girls your type go who can understand you. If you're a freelancer, or someone who work full-time online as a self-employed you can increase your chances of getting a girlfriend that will understand you by finding girlfriend online. Other girls will likely reject you based on the assumption that you are unemployed because they can't understand the nature of your work. Someone who don't know how people make money online will assume anyone who didn't work offline is unemployed. Also can't you ask yourself why doctors mostly end up getting married to doctors? Why lawyers always end up getting married to lawyers and why actors always end up getting married to actress or someone in their industry? The reason is only they can understand themselves while others may assume lawyers, doctors and actress will cheat on them. So if you want to get a girlfriend chase a girl that will understand you. If you are a man from lower class looking for a girlfriend in upper class keep in mind that even if the girl accepted you there is a big chance her family will not. Research suggests that most marriages are endogamous (marriage within the limits of a local community, clan, or tribe.) and homogamy (marriage with a person of a similar socioeconomic status, ethnicity, race, age, education level, and religion).
Often going against homogamy or endogamy marriages comes with its own prize.
But many girls rejected me, I don't think any woman will ever find me worthy of love
Statistics shows the sex ratio for the entire world population is approximately 101 males to 100 females based on 2021 estimates. Unless in a society where they prioritize polygamy or polygyny and sex-selective abortion, we may said that natural selection makes it possible that almost any man will have a wife and vice versa. Keep in mind that girls are also looking for boyfriends too because women are wired to want babies they are people like you with similar needs.And I don't even think the sex ratio distribution is universal because even if statistics says that, the common sense tells otherwise. For example here in Northern Nigeria which is the epicenter of polygamy in the world, many people live in polygamous relationships but at the same time few men stay unmarried, if the sex ratio is accurate surely we'll have millions of leftover men that will never have partners, ironically there are many leftover girls and widows looking for husband in spite of the wide practice of the polygamy. Although the last census indicates men outnumbered women in the country. Polygamy is mostly practice by Muslims so if this census is accurate that's means Muslims in Nigeria gives birth to more daughters than their Christians counterpart in the country?
So know back to the original question, how to get a girlfriend? Unlike women whom are value for high reproductive success based on their youth, fertility and beauty, men on the other hand are value for reproductive success based on their social status, and accomplishments/material wealth; therefore to increase the chances of getting accepted by the girl you like ask a girl that will understand you. You can increase the chances of getting accepted by looking for a girlfriend in your social class by going to the places where girls your type go who can understand you. If you're a freelancer, or someone who work full-time online as a self-employed you can increase your chances of getting a girlfriend that will understand you by finding girlfriend online. Other girls will likely reject you based on the assumption that you are unemployed because they can't understand the nature of your work. Someone who don't know how people make money online will assume anyone who didn't work offline is unemployed. Also can't you ask yourself why doctors mostly end up getting married to doctors? Why lawyers always end up getting married to lawyers and why actors always end up getting married to actress or someone in their industry? The reason is only they can understand themselves while others may assume lawyers, doctors and actress will cheat on them. So if you want to get a girlfriend chase a girl that will understand you. If you are a man from lower class looking for a girlfriend in upper class keep in mind that even if the girl accepted you there is a big chance her family will not. Research suggests that most marriages are endogamous (marriage within the limits of a local community, clan, or tribe.) and homogamy (marriage with a person of a similar socioeconomic status, ethnicity, race, age, education level, and religion).
Often going against homogamy or endogamy marriages comes with its own prize.
Reasons why getting a girlfriend is harder for some men
When we are young we may think that finding our dream girlfriend/wife is easier by the time we reached certain age, but as we grow up some of us will realized our assumptions isn't true. We will understand some of us will not even have a chanceTop 4 reasons
- Guys are expected to be taller than the girl in order to be accepted as boyfriend, short guys on average have least dates compared to taller guys.
- Men are expected to have a decent or prestigious career.
- Men are expected to be confident and assertive so shy guys may find it difficult to get a girlfriend on average.
- Men are expected to approach women and take the risk of getting rejected. But just as women don't have natural instincts to approach men, so does some men.
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