Love at first sight

Men are very visual who can easily find their potential wife based on her physical attraction, they fall in love faster than women so they are more likely to fall in love at first sight than women. That is not the case for women, they are very cautious about falling in love, they requires time to fully know someone before falling in love with him

Why do we fell in love at first sight?

Although deep love my not exist at first sight, but that doesn't prevent us from falling in love with someone in the first encounter even if we don't know the person personally. If you fall in love with someone in the first encounter there is possibility you fall under following scenarios:

1. Anchor: Anchor is when occurrence of something remind you of something else that happened in the past. For example you can remember old memory by listening to the old music, you can remember your school days or school mates when you saw someone wearing the type of school uniform you worn in your school days then, likewise you can remember your ex-lover when you see someone who look like him/her. So probably the person you fall in love with at first sight looks like someone you loved before and his/her look triggers your old memory of your love affair between you and your ex.
2. He/she resembles your loved one (i.e parents, or family members who you love)
3. He/she resembles someone you hurt or bullied severely and now you're regretting your actions.
4. He/she looks like your friend that you have deep connection with.

The subconscious mind forms the belief that people who looks the same have the same personality and characteristics. That is why you can fall in love with someone who looks like your parents based on the belief that he/she can give you the same affection your parents give you or can give you the same affection your family member or friend give you if he/she resembles your family member or friend. Likewise you can fall in love with someone if he resembles the person you constantly bully or hurt but now you regret your actions based on the belief that you will get over the guilt of hurting that person if you love someone who resembles him/her. All these happen unconsciously.

Unmet needs can make you fall in love with someone at first sight

Examples

1. Ibrahim is very confident and successful but he lacks assertiveness. One day he met an assertive girl in supermarket who treats him and other people nicely and suddenly he fall in love with her without realizing why. The reason why he fell in love with her is because he suffers from lack of assertiveness throughout his life that makes him miss many opportunities in life, this makes him very impressed by anyone who has assertive attributes and his subconscious mind formed the belief that an assertive girl who treats people kindly will complete him.
2. Yusuf can't control his temper, he hurts people badly if he is angry but he always regrets his actions thereafter if he calm down. Then he met a girl who's talented in seducing/manipulating men who are out of control and he instantly got impressed by her traits and suddenly fell in love with her.
3. A guy was constantly bullied and as results he feel inferior and worthless, then he met a girl who shows him that he's worthy and he suddenly fall in love with her.
4. A girl was raised in a family who favour male children and she formed the belief that behave as a female is weakness and from there she adopted male traits, when she met a shy guy she suddenly fall in love with him (based on the belief that she would be in charge and control him).
5. Someone who frustrated because people consider him as loser, underestimate him or look down on him because they failed to recognise his achievement will likely (or only) falls in love with a successful lady who draws people attention such as beautiful or popular lady because finding her as a wife will elevate his social status by making people admire and stop looking down on him