Reasons for divorce

  1. Financial issues:
    2. If someone is financially secure, he can tolerate many things without getting angrier but he can easily get disappointed if he's broke. So lack of financial security can cause misunderstanding among couples and can lead to divorce.
  2. Getting married to wrong person: For example getting married to someone who is 15 or 20 years older or younger than you; there is a chance that you have different life experiences and misunderstanding is likely to arise which can lead to divorce. Or marriage between someone who is conservative and someone who is radical, in such a case, misunderstanding is likely to arise for example conservative partner may try to rise his/her children according to familiar way (the way most people do) but radical partner may oppose that this is outdated way.
  3. Getting married to someone who have different interest, ideas and values: For example if you are a devout religious person but you got married to non-religious person, misunderstanding is likely to arise. Or if you prefer to spend most of your time alone but your partner values spending his free time with others misunderstanding is likely to arise.
  4. Educational gap: If you're educated but your partner is illiterate, misunderstanding is likely to arise.
  5. Huge IQ gap: If you have high IQ but your partner has low IQ, misunderstanding is likely to arise because high IQ people often have completely different interests. One theory known as communication range suggests that meaningful interaction is not possible if the IQ differences between two persons is more than 30 points.
  6. Conflicting personalities: An extrovert partner may hold the belief that his introvert partner is missing many things in life for staying at home watching TV, reading and browsing the internet instead of socializing, hangout with friends and travel. While his introvert partner will finds all these as wasting of time.
  7. Getting married to someone because you need him not because you love him: If man fall in love with assertive lady and got married to her because he lack assertiveness but later he gain assertiveness, he may feel he no longer need her. Also for some women, menopause approach them early in their thirties, a woman who see some signs of early menopause may rush into marriage with anyone even if they aren't compatible with each other but after they got married and had his child, she may discard him because she no longer need him. Likewise if you got married to someone because of his financial status but thereafter he suffer from financial crisis, you may feel you no longer need him.
  8. Getting married when you are extremely in need of help: e.g getting married to wealthy person because you want to get out of poverty, getting married to someone because you're lonely, getting married to someone based on the assumption that you are approaching menopause. Whenever you overcome these problems, you will feel you no longer need your spouse.
  9. Early marriage: in your teenage and early twenties, you may assume someone is your type only to understand he/she isn't your type thereafter. That's the reasons why most teenagers romantic relationships fail. If someone got married earlier without knowing himself/herself, then misunderstanding is likely to arise and lead to divorce thereafter.
  10. Getting married without knowing your potential only to discover thereafter: Your beliefs are nothing but repeated affirmations; with this repeated affirmations the children of Hindus, Muslims or Christians raised as Hindus, Muslims or Hindus believers. Now what do you expect will happen if someone was constantly put down by society? Of course he may formed the belief that he is worthless and inferior to others and think nobody worthwhile will ever marry him. This kind of person will get instant attraction to the first person who shows him he's worthy. But if after he get married to her he meets another friends who treat him nicely and got a nice job, he will come to the conclusion that he's worthy like others, thus he deserves to get a wife from his social class; then the idea of divorce will come to his mind.
  11. Getting married solely for the sake of getting acceptance by society: If someone doesn't have interest in getting married but rush into marriage based on the assumption that people treat him with disdain or looking down on him but thereafter he developed self-awareness and realized he no longer need people approval to be worthy, he will certainly divorce his partner because he/she no longer need him/her.
  12. Getting into relationship with woman solely because of lust: If man marries solely for lust he will surely lost attraction to his woman if her physical beauty diminished and starts to develop saggy skin as result of aging or child birth. And then the idea of divorce will come into his mind
  13. Lack of good hygiene:
    14. If good hygiene is what attracted man to marry a woman, but she let herself go after marriage, he will certainly lost attraction to her and the idea of divorcing her will come into his mind.
  14. If woman always show her attraction towards other men.
  15. Cheating/promiscuity:
    16. Nobody will ever like to share his partner with other, this is true especially for men. A promiscuous person especially woman has a high chance of never having husband or end up getting divorced.

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