Reasons why some people rarely fall in love

Most people have that ambition of finding partner to share their lives with since childhood; they may easily believe that everybody share their sentiment but when they grow up they will realise not everybody have that ambition, they wonder how comes some people keep away from something that everybody want?

1. They suffer from dismissive/fearful avoidant attachment: Early childhood experience influences our perception of love, what we learn about love in childhood influences how we love others in our adulthood. If your parents, caregivers and society in general give you love, you will likely grow up loving others. But if parents or caregivers didn't give a child attention or care, the child will grow up with the belief that no body will give him attention or care even if he requires so, he will not trust anybody based on the assumption that he's unworthy of love, nobody will ever love him and this will make him/her to distance himself/herself from other.
2. They feel that falling in love will affect their long-term goal, they will not be able to be themselves within relationship or fear that their partner will take advantage of their weakness
3. They choose to stay single because they love their freedom and solitude.
4. People constantly put them down which affected their self-esteem, they feel that nobody worthwhile will ever get interested in them, and thus they isolated themselves from society. Even if you don't have self-esteem issues, isolation decreases your chances of getting partner.
5. They suffer from Gamophobia: Gamophobia is the fear of marriage or commitment which affects mostly men than women. The mere thought of marriage can cause someone suffer from Gamophobia to have panic attacks. Likewise being around married couples can trigger anxiety. Someone who suffer from Gamophobia may hardly fall in love with someone.