Can shy guys get girlfriends?
Most women aren't attracted to shy guys, women are attracted to men's emotional sense of security (i.e confidence) and turn off by weakness (i.e shyness and insecurity). But some may argue they see the instances of shy guys who maintained a long-term relationship, how comes this happened? For the same reasons you will find out ugly and non-sexy girls end up getting married despite most men aren't attracted to ugly and non-sexy girls. Men aren't choosy when it comes to casual sex provided woman is in her sexual prime because there are many cases where some people taking advantage of women with brain damage and impregnated them despite nobody will ever agree to marry mad-women. But men are EXTREMELY selective when it comes to serious relationship.
Yes of course some women may like shy guy over confident guy. For instance.
Yes of course some women may like shy guy over confident guy. For instance.
Reasons why some women like shy guys
- A girl whom her father favour male child will grow up with the belief that feminine traits are weaknesses, she may adopt male traits in order to get her father's acceptance, she may hardly discarded this belief even after she grow up. This belief can make such girl to choose shy man over confident man because this will make her lead the family as men do because letting her husband lead will remind her of her feminine identity (i.e submission) which she despises. This is one of the reasons why some girls turn to tomboy although genetics is also contributing factor.
- Men do not see sex the way women see it nor do they experience love the way women do, I have to reiterate this because I heard a lot of women whom their boyfriends dumbed them and those who their husbands take a second wife or cheat on them crying "What did i lack that this girl has that will make you cheat/dumped me to her?" What most people don't like to tell you is that the primary reason why most men date or marry, especially young men is because of their sexual needs, have you wait a moment and ask yourself why a girl who is sexy has more boyfriends than non sexy girls? Unfortunately most young girls don't realise this until later in life. They will chase dominant guys but nearing the end of their sexual prime they will understand most those dominant guys are promiscuous guys because they can easily attract any girl thay want, they are only after girls youthful body. They date them just to get into their pants, they will realised those guys that chase girls to sleep with them are the same guys that will terrify if he got her pregnant instead of happy. At this time they will turn their attention to less dominant men who are likely to be monogamous, such as shy guys.
- Some women may prefer shy men over confident guy if she is sapiosexual and the guy is intelligent.
- And women who are extremely jealous thinking confident guy are likely to attract other women and cheat on them will choose shy guy over confident guy because shy guy may hardly attract other women, this is common especially in countries where polygamy marriage is widely practiced.
- Women who didn't have suitors also may turned to shy guys.
- And some women may like shy guy if he resembles their loved one. For example you will find older faces more attractive than average people if your parents are old the time you were born, you will find short guys more attractive than average girls if your father is a short, likewise you will find shy guys more attractive if your father is shy too.
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