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Can money or my sexy body attract girlfriend and boyfriend?

A man is value by women for his social status, confidence, and material wealth while woman is value by men for her youthful sexy-body and fertility. The primary reasons why MOST men dating a woman is for sex. Due to how men brain were wired to constantly think of sex he is likely to overlook other factors provided a young and sexy girl flirt him. so based on these facts yes a lady who wear skin tight clothes that moulded to the contours of her body will likely attract boyfriends. but she will mostly attract those who need her for sex not those who love her for who she are. Dont assume men see sex the way you do. They don't. If someone marry you solely because of your sexy-body there is a high chance he will discard you when you developed saggy skin after your beauty diminished. Likewise in a society where men are expected to provide their wives all basic needs because women are deprived the opportunity of earning much, Yes you can use money to attract many women because money pro
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How to get a girlfriend?

Why I find it difficult to get a girlfriend but other people find it easier? The reasons is because people achieved the same thing at different time. Some people find their girlfriend in their teens, others in their 20s, some people in their 30s while others in their 40s. So stop comparing yourself with others. But many girls rejected me, I don't think any woman will ever find me worthy of love Statistics shows the sex ratio for the entire world population is approximately 101 males to 100 females based on 2021 estimates. Unless in a society where they prioritize polygamy or polygyny and sex-selective abortion, we may said that natural selection makes it possible that almost any man will have a wife and vice versa. Keep in mind that girls are also looking for boyfriends too because women are wired to want babies they are people like you with similar needs. And I don't even think the sex ratio distribution is universal because even if statistics says that, the common sense te
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Does Money attract women?

Have you ever witness some cases where a man divorce his wife because she's not making more money than him? I think such cases is very rare. But in the other hand you will often see the instances of wife divorce her husband because he is no making much money. A woman can be unemployed with no future hope but still get a husband but no woman will ever agree to marry an unemployed man who does not have any future hope. Yes money attract women but mainly in society where there's large earning gap, men are expected to support women financially because women where deprived opportunity to earn much. Money attract women because people usually practice homogamy, homogamy in sociology is a form of assortative mating whereby people form marriage and mating with a person of a similar socioeconomic status, ethnicity, race, age, educational level and religion. So a woman from wealthier family is likely to be attracted to a man who possessed material wealth Money can overpowered people bio
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Why do people struggle to develop self-confidence?

Confidence in men is attractive to women the way physical beauty in women is attractive to men. And lack of self-confidence, insecurity or shyness in men is a turn off to women the way woman ugly face turns men off. If self-confidence in men is so attractive to women then how comes some men struggle to be confident no matter how you persuade them? People struggle to develop self-confidence because of phenomenon known as "confirmation bias" . According to Cambridge dictionary confirmation bias is the fact that people are more likely to accept or notice information if it appears to support what they already believe or expect. While dictionary.apa.org define confirmation bias as the tendency to gather evidence that confirms preexisting expectations, typically by emphasizing or pursuing supporting evidence while dismissing or failing to seek contradictory evidence. Examples of how confirmation bias influences our perception A woman who has intense fear of cats (Gatophobia) is ver
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Causes of low self-esteem

Past life experiences play a major part in shaping our beliefs. People perception of their capabilities and incapability is based on how past life's experiences shaped their beliefs. Life experiences can make people underestimate their capabilities, this perception errors is not exclusive to human, it extends to other species of animals such as elephant. For example when elephant is young, you can be able to tie it to a short stake because it is not strong enough to break the stake although initially it can attempt to do that but to no avail and the rope will cut its leg after many attempts to break the stake or untie the rope; eventually the pain of that cut will make it give up and formed the belief that any attempt to untie the rope will only cause pain and suffering. So even if after this elephant grow up, you can still tie it to the same short stake and it will never attempt to break the stake despite it is strong enough to break it now with little efforts. The reason why this
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Causes of shyness and lack of confidence

It's generally believed that confidence give man more advantage than money because women are turn on by men's sense of security (i.e confidence) and turn off by their weaknesses (= lack of confidence, insecurity or shyness). Confidence in men is attractive to women the way physical beauty in women is attractive to men. And lack of self-confidence, insecurity or shyness in men is a turn off to women the way woman ugly face turns men off. If shyness, insecurity and lack of self-confidence in men are negative traits then how comes some men develop them and have trouble to overcome them no matter how you persuade them? Causes of Shyness and lack of confidence Being always put down by parents or caregivers: If a child being put down always or calling him with resentful names such as "retard" or "dumb", such Name-calling can negatively affect his self-worth by making him believes something is wrong with him. Similarly a child who is always emotionally put do
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Why some guys are nervous or afraid to approach women they like?

The reason why some guys are afraid to approach women they like is because of lack of self-confidence, they think they don't have the skills to approach them. But why do they think so? Low self-esteem and self-worth: Someone who developed low self-esteem/self-worth will often overestimate girls worth and underestimate his own worth. He may think a girl is out of his league despite he and her come from the same social class, because past life experiences shaped his identity and make him developed low self-esteem over the years based on what he believes people think of him. Any attempt to act outside this identity or misconceptions he developed trigger the same feelings you experience for example if you attempt to touch ember or bare electric wires (see causes of shyness and lack of confidence for more details). If you are afraid to approach women because you think they are out of your league despite both of you are from the same social class, chances are your fear is based on how
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